7 Tips For Using Sex Toys With Your Partner

Sex toys can be a great way to enhance your pleasure when alone and masturbating. Some people are not fully comfortable with whipping their toys out and sharing the experience with their partners.

Published Nov 10 2020 5 min read

Sex toys can be a great way to enhance your pleasure when alone and masturbating. Some people are not fully comfortable with whipping their toys out and sharing the experience with their partners. However, some couples find that using sex toys together further enhances intimacy and the entire sexual experience.

Tip #1: Talk to your partner about if they are open to using sex toys

The best place to find out how receptive your partner is towards sex toys is to ask if they have ever used them. They may even have toys of their own you do know about. If they are receptive, ask if they would like to explore some specific toys for partners.

Tip #2: Select sex toys together

If your partner is open to trying out sex toys together, the next step is to decide what toys you want to try. It is best to shop for toys together and choose ones that you both like. Making this decision on your own is never a great idea because you may select toys your partner will not be as open to using and trying out.

Tip #3: Take it slow

You don’t have to try out every single toy you purchased right away. Start by trying out one toy to learn how it works, how it can be used together, and so on. Once you are your partner are familiar with that toy and what pleasure it brings you both, try out the next toy, and so on.

Tip #4: Don’t limit where you use toys

Most people will limit using toys to specific areas of the body. Yet, most people have erogenous zones all over their bodies. Don’t be afraid to let your partner try out different toys on different areas of your body to see how it feels and if it turns you on. You just might be surprised!

Tip #5: Add stimulation during intercourse

Certain types of sex toys can provide additional stimulation and enhancement during intercourse with your partner. These toys can help make your orgasms more intense and pleasurable. Feel free to try out different toys to find the ones that bring you and your partner the most fun and pleasure!

Tip #6: Mix it up

Once you become more familiar with using toys together, feel free to openly discuss mixing things up. You may see an app-enabled toy you want to try out, or your partner may have their eye on a toy they want to try on you. You could also reverse roles and try out new things you both are open to trying.

Tip #7: Remember to have fun and enjoy yourselves

The key to experiencing sexual pleasure with a partner is to ensure you both are having fun and enjoying yourselves. It doesn’t matter whether you have intercourse, are edging, or having fun with mutual masturbation.

By using these tips, you and your partner can experience using sex toys on each other. To find sex toys for him and her, please feel free to shop online at Mystery Vibe today! Feel free to contact us if you have questions using our online Contact Us form.  


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